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Source: Wikimedia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/avyrz6u.jpg</image:loc><image:title>aVyRz6u</image:title><image:caption>A whole bunch of women (and three men) who are not talking about feminist stuff. Source: Reddit</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/img_2985.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2985</image:title><image:caption>And that is why this message is so powerful.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-22T15:42:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/11/09/an-ode-to-ones-spirit/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/carracci_-_jupiter_et_junon.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Carracci_-_Jupiter_et_Junon</image:title><image:caption>Jupiter and Juno by Annibale Carracci</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-10T01:57:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/09/29/all-my-lady-parts-against-all-the-hate/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 16</image:title><image:caption>This Prince Charming feminist dude with whom I'm in love, though</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-15.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 15</image:title><image:caption>So honored to speak alongside powerful and inspirational voices like Kary Moss of ACLU</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-19.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 19</image:title><image:caption>I am a lucky girl, whose dreams came true.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-18.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 18</image:title><image:caption>A few select pictures from the event to intersperse: iconic Rep. Brenda Lawrence talking about fighting back against conservatives who don't care about communities, including hers.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-17.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 17</image:title><image:caption>We proceeded the campaign with a social media campaign on why we care about Lady Parts - I care because of my belief in building inclusive solidarity. And also I was supposed to use my right hand, which would have looked more like the State of Michigan.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-24T23:08:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/10/26/fantasy-life-and-getting-ready-for-parenthood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/library-1172.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Version 2</image:title><image:caption>Mr. Spivey, alongside one of my other prized Boggy Creek keepsakes.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/bettelheim.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bettelheim</image:title><image:caption>One of the truly meaningful remnants of Bettelheim's complex legacy is his understanding of fantasy in the development of identity. Source: Bayerischer Rundfunk</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-10T18:30:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/10/24/on-embracing-my-fears/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/2733757260_88a4140fc6_b.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2733757260_88a4140fc6_b</image:title><image:caption>Lorde's many comments about fear and the role it plays in women's lives are a worthy reminder for all of us, whether we have embraced strength or are still striving to do so.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-24T15:06:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2013/07/02/dsm-v-mania-lets-be-sensible/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/91842-20130701-rdoc.jpg</image:loc><image:title>91842-20130701-rdoc</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-06T12:24:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/10/04/on-micro-and-macrofeminism/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/marcha_de_las_putas_en_costa_rica_2011_-10.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Marcha_de_las_putas_en_Costa_Rica,_2011_-10</image:title><image:caption>These daily micro- aggressions add up, and we should question expecting feminists to table them for the bigger systemic issues. Source: Wikipedia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/bfe8823750938a24374b65e0ae96c6ae5dbcae2c7b660c094d74256ec8828067.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bfe8823750938a24374b65e0ae96c6ae5dbcae2c7b660c094d74256ec8828067</image:title><image:caption>Something about this is not quite feminist.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-04T19:04:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2013/05/07/do-social-networks-drive-autism-underemployment/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/cbd9e-20130507-nyt.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cbd9e-20130507-nyt</image:title><image:caption>NYT Opinionator blog post from today</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-18T16:51:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/09/13/maybe-its-time-i-became-an-openly-progressive-woman/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/gendercareerbreakdown.png</image:loc><image:title>gendercareerbreakdown</image:title><image:caption>Time to admit I have some work to do.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2829.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2829</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2828.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2828</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2825.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2825</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2823.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2823</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-13T15:12:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/09/07/on-why-i-havent-been-going-to-church/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/rtr3wgdk.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Demonstrators in support of abortion and contraceptive rights read on their mobile phones as the ruling for Hobby Lobby against their cause was announced outside the U.S. Supreme Court in Washington</image:title><image:caption>Although I can never make the choice to be or not be pregnant, know that this is personal, and I will fight for other women to have that choice. Source: Daily Kos</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/bamega.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bamega</image:title><image:caption>We do not unite in this kind of solidarity enough. Source: Jewish Women's Archive</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/883d64cf8ed1c931c3c502579c8a8a2d.jpg</image:loc><image:title>883d64cf8ed1c931c3c502579c8a8a2d</image:title><image:caption>You cannot love both God and this foolishness, dear Sister.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-07T17:16:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/09/03/what-i-will-teach-my-child-about-love/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2225.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2225</image:title><image:caption>I will teach my child about love, because I have studied love, always, to be ready to teach my child</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/844107_cc90ae05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>844107_cc90ae05</image:title><image:caption>If the flowers are many, I will teach my child that they can each be beautiful. Source: Geograph</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-04T02:03:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/08/23/changing-the-conversation-re-defining-lgbt-community-values/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-14.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 14</image:title><image:caption>Beautiful cinema vérité moment – performer dancing with two little children wearing Pride tees. This is actually what it's all about. Little kids get it.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 13</image:title><image:caption>Let me tell you what's not boring!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/fullsizerender-12.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 12</image:title><image:caption>The bandstand was actually right on Lake Cadillac, with the audience facing the water. Which was really pretty!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-23T11:30:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/08/18/navigating-us-vs-them-and-the-role-of-lived-experience-in-regulating-ethical-healthcare-practice/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/hopenetwork_7_19_-0013-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>HopeNetwork_7_19_-0013-2</image:title><image:caption>Photo of one of my actual kids and one of my actual (past) therapists, both of whom I love (source: Hope Network) </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-18T13:16:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/08/02/utilization-management-and-trans-healthcare/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/screen-shot-2015-08-02-at-11-59-07-am.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-08-02 at 11.59.07 AM</image:title><image:caption>The CNN article includes some real-world reports of trans people and their healthcare choices, although it only includes examples that appear to be significantly above the typical (e.g., +/- 1SD) spend for transition related healthcare.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-02T17:25:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/07/20/in-search-of-sexually-empowering-feminism/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/post-2-psd.png</image:loc><image:title>post-2-psd</image:title><image:caption>It really is entirely too much fifty shades of rape. Source: Women's Aid and Refuge 24H Helpline</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/audiosmutposter.jpg</image:loc><image:title>audiosmutposter</image:title><image:caption>I don't mean to call out this radio program, and I just found this doing a Google search, but this is a good example of how the messaging of the "sex positive" movement is often objectifying to women (Source: CKUT)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/tumblr_lkny0ioage1qbia7to1_500.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tumblr_lkny0iOAge1qbia7to1_500</image:title><image:caption>This is a question we ask critically, not an assumption we make. And sex being free doesn't mean free for (men to do the) taking. Source: Hiphoptumblr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/quote-a-sex-symbol-becomes-a-thing-i-hate-being-a-thing-marilyn-monroe-331257.jpg</image:loc><image:title>quote-a-sex-symbol-becomes-a-thing-i-hate-being-a-thing-marilyn-monroe-331257</image:title><image:caption>This idea Marilyn was talking about, the difference between being sexy and being objectified - t's really deep.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-01T04:30:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/07/11/the-place-of-female-chauvinism-in-feminist-and-womens-movements/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/bal-woman-pulls-down-confederate-flag-in-south-carolina-20150627.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bal-woman-pulls-down-confederate-flag-in-south-carolina-20150627</image:title><image:caption>We should be proud in our womanhood like Bree Newsome is proud of her blackness (incidentally, you go, sister!) Source: Inform!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/soraya-healthcare-564x420.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Male Doctor Examining Female Patient In Emergency Room</image:title><image:caption>Seriously, so note how much makeup the inpatient in a hospital is wearing for her review with her attending. In an article about how sexism hurts women's health, for the love of all that is good and holy! (Source: Role Reboot)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/pig_in_a_bucket.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Pig_in_a_bucket</image:title><image:caption>Truth be told, calling people pigs has always sort of ... I don't like that. It really bothers me, for some reason. Source: Wikimedia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/2-male-karyotype-omikron.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2-male-karyotype-omikron</image:title><image:caption>This is a karyotype. Not mine. Some guy's. Seriously, if you want to have a conversation about the biology of sex and you don't know the word karyotype... Source: fineartamerica</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-08T23:27:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/07/08/our-model-of-suicide-and-maintaining-mental-health-stigma/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/10462101944_5718b99734_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>10462101944_5718b99734_o</image:title><image:caption>When we talk about mental illness, there is not nearly often enough the kind attitude of survivorship mixed with pushing us all to do more, be more clever and resourceful, to help more people survive. My experience, anyways, is that this attitude is very different when talking about a non-mental illness that might take one's life vs. a mental illness that might take one's life. Source: A Leukemia and Lymphoma Society Light the Night Cancer Walk, Dave Overcash on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/6817314001_693d05c698_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6817314001_693d05c698_o</image:title><image:caption>As survivors (and proud of it!) we know an elemental joy of surviving that you, who have never survived, may not be able to understand. But in having survived, we come face to face also with the knowledge that our survival was not guaranteed, and if we take pride in our survivorship, that pride must recognize the sisters we lost. Source: @Rega Photography on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/3962891383_4dbcee36e4_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>3962891383_4dbcee36e4_o</image:title><image:caption>Anorexia is my personal experience, but it's also relevant to me because there is so much policing around the expression of and fear around the honesty of us as women who are there (and to a lesser extent who were there) Source: @daniellehelm on Flickr</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-05T15:08:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/07/04/embracing-imperfection-while-celebrating-the-pursuit-of-liberty/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/louisiana_indians_walking_along_a_bayou.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Louisiana_Indians_Walking_Along_a_Bayou</image:title><image:caption>It cannot - must not - be a sign of our patriotism that we pretend that our errors were right or justified, or that we fail to analyze the weaknesses in our values and actions that led us to commit injustice. Source: Wikimedia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/007984.jpg</image:loc><image:title>007984</image:title><image:caption>We do not know full well the minds of early American heroes or heroines, like our sister Sybil Ludington, or even our even our sisters like Julia Ward Howe, who left behind a lot more of their thoughts in their words and speeches, but it does rather seem that they did not see bravery as something relegated only to soldiers, but rather, as a fundamental American virtue.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/jan31ln-articleinline.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jan31LN-articleInline</image:title><image:caption>Harper's Weekly Covering the triumph of the passage of the 13th Amendment. Source: LOC</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-05T11:52:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/06/26/civility-and-authenticity-in-the-workplace/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/icu_iv_1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ICU_IV_1</image:title><image:caption>Medical errors cause a lot more harm than we think... besides clinician skill, are there civility or workplace authenticity - personnel factors - that could help us save these lives? Source: Wikimedia</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/5278465761_ec77e27f05_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>5278465761_ec77e27f05_o</image:title><image:caption>Sometimes, workplace brawls really do happen, although they are altogether more often cold wars.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-26T14:01:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/06/22/living-like-black-lives-actually-mattered/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/drunk11n-3-web.jpg</image:loc><image:title>drunk11n-3-web</image:title><image:caption>Driving while black is real, even if it doesn't happen to happen to you (and particularly if it doesn't happen to happen to you because you're not black). Source: NY Daily News.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/promontory_point_northerly_view.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Promontory_Point_Northerly_View</image:title><image:caption>I loooved Hyde Park. And my favorite Hyde Park memory was the elderly women who had Barack Obama tees pulled over their church dresses at the bus stop, and the look of optimism on their faces.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/1411872829000-chicken-coop.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1411872829000-Chicken-Coop</image:title><image:caption>Seriously, this restaurant is such a marker for pretty much everywhere crime and poverty happens in this city. And I refuse to not drive by it because I'm afraid. Crime happens in the locus of every Chicken Coop not because black people are criminals but because every Chicken Coop is ensconced in an entrenchment of poverty, and those of us who have always had enough to eat have no idea how hard it is to climb out of poverty.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-23T00:47:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/06/13/towards-a-world-where-every-child-belongs/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/screen-shot-2015-03-17-at-5-59-30-pm.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen-shot-2015-03-17-at-5.59.30-PM</image:title><image:caption>Yeah right, you're going to bully this guy. But back then, when he wasn't 6' 9" and he didn't know how to stand up for himself, you did. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/screen-shot-2015-06-13-at-8-30-31-am1.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-06-13 at 8.30.31 AM</image:title><image:caption>In a talk I recently did, I argued that failures in diversity and inclusion often begin with a failed value equation like this one.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/screen-shot-2015-06-13-at-8-30-31-am.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-06-13 at 8.30.31 AM</image:title><image:caption>In a talk I recently did, I argued that failures in diversity and inclusion often begin with a failed value equation like this one.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/1054179588_4731d4d2b3_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1054179588_4731d4d2b3_o</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/base2.png</image:loc><image:title>base2</image:title><image:caption>Sometimes, personality clashes can be like bombs going off, I guess.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2018-03-14T08:29:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/06/07/authenticity-as-the-sine-qua-non-of-the-trans-success-story-and-the-virtuous-cycle-of-narratives-informing-lives/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/marya-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>marya-11</image:title><image:caption>Marya is amazing. So thankful for sisters like this one. Source: Mark Trockman / trockstock.com</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/gay_pride_istanbul_at_taksim_square.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Gay_pride_Istanbul_at_Taksim_Square</image:title><image:caption>This is Istanbul's 2011 Pride... the change is global! (Source: Wikimedia)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/tie_dyed_trans_pride_by_randomflyingpigeons-d4jtgfo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tie_dyed_trans_pride_by_randomflyingpigeons-d4jtgfo</image:title><image:caption>Proud as Proud Can Be... and you can click on the flag to buy trans pride stuff from randomflyingpidgeons!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-07T21:15:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/06/05/a-sorry-not-sorry-conversation/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/amy_schumer_by_mario_santor.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Comedy Central Roast of Donald Trump - Arrivals</image:title><image:caption>Sorry, Amy, not with you on this one. Although you're amazing and I encourage robust debate amongst us as feminists and women.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/frederik_de_klerk_with_nelson_mandela_-_world_economic_forum_annual_meeting_davos_1992.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Frederik_de_Klerk_with_Nelson_Mandela_-_World_Economic_Forum_Annual_Meeting_Davos_1992</image:title><image:caption>Okay, so these guys were not too shabby. But pay close attention to everything they did, not just one thing they did. Context is queen.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/2013-07-10-screenshot20130709at2-26-35pm.png</image:loc><image:title>2013-07-10-ScreenShot20130709at2.26.35PM</image:title><image:caption>Sadly, this is is way more intended to help you feel better about yourself than to do any good (HuffPo, 2013)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/evita_dior.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Evita_Dior</image:title><image:caption>Just like this. A cushion of air. Except without so much crying for Argentina.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/h61e24cb7.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>h61E24CB7</image:title><image:caption>Dis furst part dedicates to da ladeez</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-06T10:28:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/06/02/sexism-is-bad-for-men-too/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/20150530_ldp001_0.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20150530_LDP001_0</image:title><image:caption>"The Weaker Sex," The Economist, 2015.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-02T16:13:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/05/26/coolclusion-that-hip-new-thing/</loc><lastmod>2015-05-28T01:24:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/05/29/how-i-became-a-real-life-fairytale-princess/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/fullsizerender-6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 6</image:title><image:caption>This Prince Charming, though.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/ouat-villains-once-upon-a-time-32825846-1600-1000.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OUAT-Villains-once-upon-a-time-32825846-1600-1000</image:title><image:caption>Before I was all like, "Welcome to the Revolution!" I was like, "Awww, crap, what have I gotten myself into?"</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/new.jpg</image:loc><image:title>new</image:title><image:caption>These sisters, calling me.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/product-lifecycle.jpg</image:loc><image:title>product-lifecycle</image:title><image:caption>Ummm, yeah, it didn't work anything like this.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/katie_stuart_1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Katie_Stuart_1</image:title><image:caption>Meg Murry, I will always be in your debt.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/3451_view.jpg</image:loc><image:title>3451_view</image:title><image:caption>Seriously, you guys, I did not see either of these two, like, ever.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-23T13:20:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/05/29/queering-the-value-equation/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/20150529-ynpn-queering-the-value-eqn-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20150529 - YNPN Queering the Value Eqn.001</image:title><image:caption>Click the picture to see the afternoon presentation visuals</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-25T22:48:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/05/08/sisterhood-is-the-best-part-of-being-a-woman/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/2583_screen_shot_2014-10-24_at_1-16-33_pm.png</image:loc><image:title>2583_Screen_Shot_2014-10-24_at_1.16.33_PM</image:title><image:caption>Sisterhood and solidarity are enduring and familiar to us as feminists and womanists</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/77c3a1f342bb877ebe33f8215ba34388.jpg</image:loc><image:title>77c3a1f342bb877ebe33f8215ba34388</image:title><image:caption>Click on the image to learn more about how not having access to water affects women throughout their lives.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/patricia-arquette_640x480_41424777882.jpg</image:loc><image:title>patricia-arquette_640x480_41424777882</image:title><image:caption>Patricia Arquette is still a sister. But we need as sisters to call bad actresses back in.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-09T13:17:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/04/26/the-hidden-danger-to-the-sisterhood-of-hierarchical-assumptions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/10995021_795138153856948_1262558108_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>10995021_795138153856948_1262558108_n</image:title><image:caption>Notorious, indeed.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/genderbread-2-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Genderbread-2.1</image:title><image:caption>The Genderbread Person is useful to illustrate that gender identity, sexual orientation, etc., are different things, but there is danger in assuming that two different things are automatically entirely uncorrelated.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/ht_laverne_cox_ml_150416_4x3_992.jpg</image:loc><image:title>HT_Laverne_Cox_ml_150416_4x3_992</image:title><image:caption>When powerful women choose to play object roles - in big ways, like an Allure photoshoot, and in small ways, like wearing sexy clothes to the bar - we frequently face criticism for  being sexy (and open to objectification)... while ignoring the inescapable fact that a great many of us want to be seen as pretty (and yes, sometimes sexy). </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/2008_08_14t080803_450x296_us_georgia_ossetia5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2008_08_14t080803_450x296_us_georgia_ossetia5</image:title><image:caption>Jackboots have never been used to advance the patriarchy? Really? Really?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/b5fg0yrcyaevkyh.jpg</image:loc><image:title>B5fG0yrCYAEvKyH</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-26T15:46:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/04/21/is-the-era-of-the-community-center-over/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/maxresdefault.jpg</image:loc><image:title>maxresdefault</image:title><image:caption>Listen to the pizza, y'all.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/stonewall-riots-june-28-1969-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stonewall Riots, June 28, 1969 (2)</image:title><image:caption>Fifty years ago, Stonewall was a game changer. What will tomorrow's game changer be?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/11150183_1555915994660573_6731929635810188549_n-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>11150183_1555915994660573_6731929635810188549_n (1)</image:title><image:caption>...or for my mister.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/11133959_10152861485912362_5313604436873346092_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>11133959_10152861485912362_5313604436873346092_o</image:title><image:caption>You have no idea what I'll do for my AutismFamily.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-20T19:54:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/04/18/on-fighting-commercial-sexual-exploitation-of-children-and-navigating-co-advocacy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/205x314xstrippers-pagespeed-ic-sq0tbnjrug.jpg</image:loc><image:title>205x314xstrippers.jpg.pagespeed.ic.SQ0tBnJruG</image:title><image:caption>This conversation probably isn't just going to go away...</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/sunitha_krishnan_grid11_l.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sunitha_krishnan_grid11_L</image:title><image:caption>I'm late to the party... this Krishnan is way more fierce than I am, although hopefully the more Krishnans we get in on this, the better. Click the pic to listen to Sumitha's TED talk.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/screen_shot_2013-10-03_at_12-45-37_am.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen_Shot_2013-10-03_at_12.45.37_AM</image:title><image:caption>There is increasing visibility to this issue (incidentally, as many as 1/3 of CSEC victims are boys... their visibility is only just beginning...)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/quote-lean-into-the-sharp-points-and-fully-experience-them-the-essence-of-bravery-is-being-without-pema-chodron-340321.jpg</image:loc><image:title>quote-lean-into-the-sharp-points-and-fully-experience-them-the-essence-of-bravery-is-being-without-pema-chodron-340321</image:title><image:caption>Yet another heroine of mine.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-18T15:24:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/04/13/of-course-love-wins-but-it-has-to-be-in-your-heart/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/love-wins.jpg</image:loc><image:title>love-wins</image:title><image:caption>Of course love wins. How could it not?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/nelsonmandela_0.png</image:loc><image:title>nelsonmandela_0</image:title><image:caption>Theirs... and ours.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/10987487_10152832102172362_5272466371153636887_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>10987487_10152832102172362_5272466371153636887_o</image:title><image:caption>Someday, I'll be, big enough so you can't hit me... </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-13T14:42:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/04/07/i-am-a-real-life-fairytale-princess/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_2470.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2470</image:title><image:caption>This came just a little bit later!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/trans100-138.jpg</image:loc><image:title>trans100-138</image:title><image:caption>I'm not saying, I never get to wear pretty dresses....</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-08T12:40:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/03/31/what-if-the-people-who-dont-know-how-to-do-trans-inclusion-are-us/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/fullsizerender-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 2</image:title><image:caption>If you know one thing about me, you should know I'm happy. That's what lets me not spend my time surviving, but doing things like advocating for kids with autism.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/fullsizerender-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 4</image:title><image:caption>This is my Trans100 bio. I'm so amazed by the talent of the people chosen, and I feel more than a little unworthy.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/fullsizerender-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 3</image:title><image:caption>Again, I say this with love and a sincere desire to keep Lana Wachowski and everyone else I mention, either by name or not, in this article, in the family, and to build a stronger and better family together with all of you.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-01T01:17:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/03/28/my-how-weve-grown/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/screen-shot-2015-03-28-at-10-07-53-am.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-03-28 at 10.07.53 AM</image:title><image:caption>I continue to push myself to feel in the real world in each moment, and not to discount my experiences because they are mine. Now, I recognize how much of this was my internalized and self-directed misogyny, as well, although that was something I did not grasp, then.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-28T14:50:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/03/15/why-i-believe-in-magic/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/screen-shot-2015-03-15-at-11-38-33-am.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2015-03-15 at 11.38.33 AM</image:title><image:caption>It's not because they don't like me, it's not because they don't like me, it's not because they don't like me</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_2379.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2379</image:title><image:caption>I mean, seriously, do I look like I fit in with neuropsychologists who refer to their clinic as a "laboratory"? A couple weeks ago I went to work with Solo cups bobby pinned to my head.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/mira-disc-influencing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mira DISC influencing</image:title><image:caption>What??? Not effusive? Robbed, I tell you, robbed!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/stardust__21.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stardust__21</image:title><image:caption>Okay, I kind of glow like this when I see Teri, too.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/mira-disc.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mira DISC</image:title><image:caption>Apparently, when backed into a corner, I become submissive and try to use my charm to get out of trouble....</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-15T15:45:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/03/08/why-im-giving-up-picking-fights-within-the-sisterhood/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/fullsizerender-e1425839498548.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender</image:title><image:caption>I'm not stopping cracking the whip altogether. I'm just doing my best not to crack it at other Sisters.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-08T22:12:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/03/01/on-wanting-family/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_20150228_161010182_hdr.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20150228_161010182_HDR</image:title><image:caption>For now (and, well, always), Iago is my baby</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-01T20:46:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/02/21/mira-and-teri-record-with-storycorps/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/1407531405000-storycorps-trailer.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1407531405000-StoryCorps-Trailer</image:title><image:caption>This is the actual StoryCorps trailer, it has a mad fierce sound booth tucked away in it, and you can actually get a great audio recording even while there's a festival going on in Rosa Parks Circle right outside the door.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_0249.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0249</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-21T20:25:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/02/15/teaching-people-to-get-privilege/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/20150131-sywtbaa-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20150131 - SYWTBAA.001</image:title><image:caption>Don't make me do Michelle Obama side eyes.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/20150215-sywtbaa-data.png</image:loc><image:title>20150215 - SYWTBAA Data</image:title><image:caption>Participant survey data from our January 2015 So You Want To Be An Ally</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-15T18:20:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/02/10/a-mission-to-christianity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/gender-dysphoria-cover.jpg</image:loc><image:title>gender-dysphoria-cover</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-11T22:39:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/02/01/sexual-healing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_23391.png</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2339</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/51wnndnipsl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>51WNnDniPsL</image:title><image:caption>Go buy this book, for serious</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/vintage-advertisement-1960s-sex-appeal-curves-weight-gain-offer.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Vintage Advertisement  1960s Sex Appeal Curves Weight Gain Offer</image:title><image:caption>No, sir, I plead not guilty.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-19T20:35:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2013/08/25/sexuality-and-the-autismfamily/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/f92a1-20130825-cutler.jpg</image:loc><image:title>f92a1-20130825-cutler</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-17T14:12:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/01/11/on-reconciling-the-binary-with-fighting-the-patriarchy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/700b81c58e65504fdc5e64405c840331.jpg</image:loc><image:title>700b81c58e65504fdc5e64405c840331</image:title><image:caption>I avoided this book for the longest time, because I didn't know how it ended, and I didn't understand the point Forster was making, until I got all the way to the end.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/ibtc2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IBTC2</image:title><image:caption>Seriously, you guys, this movie is SO good.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-11T13:30:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/12/28/why-i-want-you-to-rethink-everything-you-thought-you-knew-about-being-an-ally/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/systems-of-oppression-diagram-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Systems of Oppression Diagram.001</image:title><image:caption>The solid lines mean that the group (in grey) serves to strengthen the system (in color). The dotted lines means the group serves to undermine the system.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/image.png</image:loc><image:title>image</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-05T13:58:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2013/03/23/welcome/</loc><lastmod>2015-01-04T18:43:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/01/01/mira-goes-het-way-way-het/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/10557525_656676567779568_842061436227714636_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>10557525_656676567779568_842061436227714636_o</image:title><image:caption>#NoHomo to be seen, at all?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/tumblr_mte0o3wg4e1r38njjo1_500.gif</image:loc><image:title>tumblr_mte0o3Wg4E1r38njjo1_500</image:title><image:caption>Where have you been? Oh, right. Stuck in the far reaches of Heteroville, that's right.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-01T19:03:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2015/01/01/transgender-life-the-difficulties-of-dating/</loc><lastmod>2015-01-30T22:35:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/04/07/a-coming-out-story/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-25T15:38:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/04/11/keeping-appearances/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-25T15:38:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/11/21/re-thinking-privilege-and-visibility-in-the-trans-community-how-solidarity-and-advocacy-can-make-the-world-safe-for-all-of-us/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/fullsizerender.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/fullsizerender-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/fullsizerender-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-25T15:37:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/12/21/hiv-and-the-lgbt-community-getting-my-first-hiv-test-and-some-education/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/fullsizerender-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 5</image:title><image:caption>This is an innocuous looking piece of paper. Folded in half. What you can't see, on the inside, is the result of my HIV test. It's my business. It's Teri's business. It's my doctors' business. That's about it.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/fullsizerender-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 4</image:title><image:caption>Here I am with, with Kevin Gierman of the Red Project. See how easy it was? If I can do this, you can do this.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-22T20:31:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://miracharlotte.com/2014/12/21/my-talk-to-pflag-holland-lakeshore-this-week/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/fullsizerender.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/fullsizerender-21.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/fullsizerender-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 3</image:title><image:caption>Mad Fierce in the Photobooth at the Hope Network 2014 Annual Gala</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/fullsizerender-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender 2</image:title><image:caption>And here I am. A happy girl, changing the world for kids with autism by day, and the LGBT community by night.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/515lnlnhirl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>515lnLnHIRL</image:title><image:caption>As Nature Made Him is a really remarkable look at the question of nature and nurture and their roles in human gender identity.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://miracharlotte.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/wtsiyulb7nkg.jpg</image:loc><image:title>wtsiyulb7nkg</image:title><image:caption>My school unselfconsciously used a lot of logos that look suspiciously like they belong to the Black Panther Party. 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